Develop strong suit

There used to be my friend wrote about a girl. She was gorgeous. Beautiful is hockey. Because beautiful, that girl can easily work.

With a sweet smile during the interview he was hired. With a pleasant hospitality, he was well liked. His career was rising fast. He was successful because of hockey, my friend wrote earlier. Incidentally he is also a woman.

I protested the article. The girl was not hockey. He realized the advantages and exploit it. But he did use it correctly. She did not sell her beauty in the sexual sense, to get money.

That is all? No. This part is hard to see anyone else. He did a lot of other business people do not realize. First, he did not make mistakes in the work. It works correctly. Even though she was beautiful, most likely he will be discharged if he kept making mistakes.

He was friendly. Not easy to welcoming it. Not easy to build a very positive atmosphere. Pleasant working atmosphere encourages people to work better. Would not that be considered a big thing?

"OK, lah," said a girl who happened not pretty. "At least it easier to get work than mine. It was easier to build the atmosphere fun than me. Still, he is more hockey than me. "

Your mistake is that you're trying to mimic the way people have advantages that do not have.

"But, what gain by? I do not have a surplus. "

That's your biggest problem. You never know what your strong suit. That's why you never use it. That's why you never develop it. The advantages that you have finally just be something in vain.

A woman who's confused me to complain.

"I have to work, but I do not have the skill."

Incidentally, I know, he mastered two foreign languages. "Two foreign language that you mastered it is a remarkable skill. Many people can live with the ability of a foreign language. You've got two, you're better than he had the chance. "

That's it. Many people fail to understand the success of others, resting it on factors that can not be tampered with: hockey. He did not understand what the man advantage. So he did not understand and did not realize what his superiority. He was satisfied with the spectator hockey.

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